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		<title>By: Katie</title>
		<link>http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2013/07/the-weekend-send-off-61/comment-page-1/#comment-23436</link>
		<dc:creator>Katie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jul 2013 01:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, full disclosure, I am newly married. I find myself waffling 
between these conventional ideals and unconventional possibilities of 
marriage. I know there isn&#039;t a &quot;right&quot; answer, but I have this urge to 
peek into other smart women&#039;s lives and see what works for them, and 
what doesn&#039;t. What solidly personal introspection did you do while 
deciding to be married? To make a baby? To separate? To get divorced? 
Meaning, were you able to reflect solely on your needs? Or does that 
become impossible while partnered. What compromises were a good idea? Is
 there anything you would caution newly married people against? Or did 
everything work out exactly as it was &quot;supposed&quot; to. 

I actually 
work with domestic violence perpetrators, survivors, and their kids for 
my job, so I spend a lot of time thinking about survival in a 
relationship. It doesn&#039;t allow for much consideration of building a 
healthy marriage or a healthy divorce.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, full disclosure, I am newly married. I find myself waffling<br />
between these conventional ideals and unconventional possibilities of<br />
marriage. I know there isn&#8217;t a &#8220;right&#8221; answer, but I have this urge to<br />
peek into other smart women&#8217;s lives and see what works for them, and<br />
what doesn&#8217;t. What solidly personal introspection did you do while<br />
deciding to be married? To make a baby? To separate? To get divorced?<br />
Meaning, were you able to reflect solely on your needs? Or does that<br />
become impossible while partnered. What compromises were a good idea? Is<br />
 there anything you would caution newly married people against? Or did<br />
everything work out exactly as it was &#8220;supposed&#8221; to. </p>
<p>I actually<br />
work with domestic violence perpetrators, survivors, and their kids for<br />
my job, so I spend a lot of time thinking about survival in a<br />
relationship. It doesn&#8217;t allow for much consideration of building a<br />
healthy marriage or a healthy divorce.</p>
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		<title>By: skeptk_vegan</title>
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		<dc:creator>skeptk_vegan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jul 2013 02:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mom &amp; Waits tutorials/recipes would be amazing. I agree with others that the cocktail series would be a good route as well. Buuuttt... I have a feeling you&#039;d most enjoy a wide open variety of videos. Personals, how-tos, answering questions, recipes, Waits, gardening, reviews, series, etc.! I&#039;m excited!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mom &amp; Waits tutorials/recipes would be amazing. I agree with others that the cocktail series would be a good route as well. Buuuttt&#8230; I have a feeling you&#8217;d most enjoy a wide open variety of videos. Personals, how-tos, answering questions, recipes, Waits, gardening, reviews, series, etc.! I&#8217;m excited!</p>
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		<title>By: skeptk_vegan</title>
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		<dc:creator>skeptk_vegan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jul 2013 02:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[SO jealous of vegan pizza delivery! Dang! 

My Love List
-Always, my boyfriend... I didn&#039;t last week but hence the following...
-Resolutions &amp; revolutions in my dynamic relationship.
-Young &amp; Beautiful * Lana Del Rey
-Guilty * Marina &amp; The Diamonds
-Kimchi on pudla, &amp; the recently discovered galaxy brand mexican style vegan cheese shreds. 
-13 more days of work. 23 more days of Alaska. 
-My new phone! Samsung Galaxy S4. AMAZING! I am very excited about ditching the iPhone!
-The pudla I just ate - shit that was good.

-Amanda Palmer
-banana, date &amp; espresso breakfast smoothies... MMM!
-A clean car.
-Having a very good friend to talk to.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SO jealous of vegan pizza delivery! Dang! </p>
<p>My Love List<br />
-Always, my boyfriend&#8230; I didn&#8217;t last week but hence the following&#8230;<br />
-Resolutions &amp; revolutions in my dynamic relationship.<br />
-Young &amp; Beautiful * Lana Del Rey<br />
-Guilty * Marina &amp; The Diamonds<br />
-Kimchi on pudla, &amp; the recently discovered galaxy brand mexican style vegan cheese shreds.<br />
-13 more days of work. 23 more days of Alaska.<br />
-My new phone! Samsung Galaxy S4. AMAZING! I am very excited about ditching the iPhone!<br />
-The pudla I just ate &#8211; shit that was good.</p>
<p>-Amanda Palmer<br />
-banana, date &amp; espresso breakfast smoothies&#8230; MMM!<br />
-A clean car.<br />
-Having a very good friend to talk to.</p>
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		<title>By: Crystal Dicus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Crystal Dicus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jul 2013 23:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What an excellent beach day, and congrats on the go cart win : )  I agree that videos lend themselves well to diy &amp; instructional topics, and you can make them personal if you want since you&#039;ll probably be able to tie in memories and stories relative to each one, which people will love.  Looking forward to them!

Love List + finding out there&#039;s a vegan holistic doctor very close to where I live + reading book by said doctor + super-satisfying, refreshing green smoothies + a pair of white-breasted nuthatches on our big tree + visiting a local nature preserve + making healthier choices + getting {procrastinated} projects done + time with friends + nectarines &amp; blueberries + our csa + tea &amp; coffee + getting to meet Donovan the mini cow at our friends&#039; sanctuary { love }]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What an excellent beach day, and congrats on the go cart win : )  I agree that videos lend themselves well to diy &amp; instructional topics, and you can make them personal if you want since you&#8217;ll probably be able to tie in memories and stories relative to each one, which people will love.  Looking forward to them!</p>
<p>Love List + finding out there&#8217;s a vegan holistic doctor very close to where I live + reading book by said doctor + super-satisfying, refreshing green smoothies + a pair of white-breasted nuthatches on our big tree + visiting a local nature preserve + making healthier choices + getting {procrastinated} projects done + time with friends + nectarines &amp; blueberries + our csa + tea &amp; coffee + getting to meet Donovan the mini cow at our friends&#8217; sanctuary { love }</p>
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		<title>By: Sonja</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sonja</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jul 2013 21:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I would love seeing more videos, Sayward! Recipes and tutorials (all kind of things) mabe?! Love the beach-pics!


My love list:
- my colleagues
- litlle gift surprises
- reading on the bacony till sunset
- yoga
- long train rides with lots of time to listen to my favorite vegan podcasts
- making travel plans
- my bf]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would love seeing more videos, Sayward! Recipes and tutorials (all kind of things) mabe?! Love the beach-pics!</p>
<p>My love list:<br />
- my colleagues<br />
- litlle gift surprises<br />
- reading on the bacony till sunset<br />
- yoga<br />
- long train rides with lots of time to listen to my favorite vegan podcasts<br />
- making travel plans<br />
- my bf</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jul 2013 17:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your pictures make your beach day out look luscious! I had a similar day but with the Norway equivalent. A lake, woods, sun baked stones and cold dips. 

* swimming outside in nature, very cold but wonderful * the dark chocolate I&#039;m eating and the anticipation of the wine in the fridge * making new connections. I only just joined a vegan Facebook group and have already met some wonderful people. * plans for new friend dosa and chai dates * being asked to make my own guide to Oslo on Stay.com * running further than I ever had and even after falling over, I got straight back up and ran some more. * making plans with my love. *the sun come out from the clouds. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your pictures make your beach day out look luscious! I had a similar day but with the Norway equivalent. A lake, woods, sun baked stones and cold dips. </p>
<p>* swimming outside in nature, very cold but wonderful * the dark chocolate I&#8217;m eating and the anticipation of the wine in the fridge * making new connections. I only just joined a vegan Facebook group and have already met some wonderful people. * plans for new friend dosa and chai dates * being asked to make my own guide to Oslo on Stay.com * running further than I ever had and even after falling over, I got straight back up and ran some more. * making plans with my love. *the sun come out from the clouds. </p>
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		<title>By: Sayward Rebhal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sayward Rebhal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jul 2013 17:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Beautiful. You must be having an amazing time!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful. You must be having an amazing time!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Sayward Rebhal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sayward Rebhal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jul 2013 17:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Look who&#039;s talking - what a great love list! =D]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Look who&#8217;s talking &#8211; what a great love list! =D</p>
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		<title>By: Sayward Rebhal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sayward Rebhal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jul 2013 17:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hmm, interesting thoughts, thanks for the input Katie. I do have lots of thoughts on marriage and relationships . . . not sure people would like to hear what I have to say though, as my new perspective is pretty unconventional. 

In general, I have no problem sharing my insides publicly, haha. I always refer to myself as an exhibitionist introvert. 

Aside from thoughts on marriage/relationships, what kind of other personal stuff do you think would be interesting?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm, interesting thoughts, thanks for the input Katie. I do have lots of thoughts on marriage and relationships . . . not sure people would like to hear what I have to say though, as my new perspective is pretty unconventional. </p>
<p>In general, I have no problem sharing my insides publicly, haha. I always refer to myself as an exhibitionist introvert. </p>
<p>Aside from thoughts on marriage/relationships, what kind of other personal stuff do you think would be interesting?</p>
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		<title>By: Sayward Rebhal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sayward Rebhal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jul 2013 17:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[YAY! Exciting!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>YAY! Exciting!!!</p>
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