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	<title>Comments on: But I&#8217;m not gonna live my life / On one side of an ampersand</title>
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		<title>By: Mimi Lee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mimi Lee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Mar 2017 06:25:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Please do not get &quot;married&quot; or if you do please do NOT vow anything except to stay together until you are both no longer happy.  You hurt someone that deeply~who still wants to preserve the relationship and they are scarred for all time.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please do not get &#8220;married&#8221; or if you do please do NOT vow anything except to stay together until you are both no longer happy.  You hurt someone that deeply~who still wants to preserve the relationship and they are scarred for all time.</p>
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		<title>By: Mimi Lee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mimi Lee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Mar 2017 06:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[All these 30 years of marriage have taught me that Veronica is very correct~no marriage is perfect &amp; my contemporaries &amp; my children know this to be fact.  What we see today is &quot;serial marriages&quot; not generally &quot;life long marriages&quot; until those with multiples under their belt get to an age that they finally just &quot;stick together&quot; because they are old; realize &quot;no marriage is perfect&quot;; and or have one final divorce never marry again but have continued &quot;relationships&quot; but no &quot;lifelong&quot; partnership/relationship/marriage.  WORK on finding a good mate and work on keeping them~it IS worth it. IMHO]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All these 30 years of marriage have taught me that Veronica is very correct~no marriage is perfect &amp; my contemporaries &amp; my children know this to be fact.  What we see today is &#8220;serial marriages&#8221; not generally &#8220;life long marriages&#8221; until those with multiples under their belt get to an age that they finally just &#8220;stick together&#8221; because they are old; realize &#8220;no marriage is perfect&#8221;; and or have one final divorce never marry again but have continued &#8220;relationships&#8221; but no &#8220;lifelong&#8221; partnership/relationship/marriage.  WORK on finding a good mate and work on keeping them~it IS worth it. IMHO</p>
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		<title>By: ayu febriana</title>
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		<dc:creator>ayu febriana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2015 08:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[have more time together with children is fun exceed had a lot of &lt;a href=&quot;http://goo.gl/L7tXeO&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;cara menghilangkan keputihan yang gatal&lt;/a&gt;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>have more time together with children is fun exceed had a lot of <a href="http://goo.gl/L7tXeO" rel="nofollow">cara menghilangkan keputihan yang gatal</a></p>
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		<title>By: Moving Forward From Here &#124; Bonzai Aphrodite</title>
		<link>http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2013/02/but-im-not-gonna-live-my-life-on-one-side-of-an-ampersand/comment-page-1/#comment-23725</link>
		<dc:creator>Moving Forward From Here &#124; Bonzai Aphrodite</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Aug 2013 05:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] not. We were there last year, Waits and I, and Damian too. I wrote about it here, do you remember? There was a boat ride and cousins playing and a harrowing kitten rescue. And I [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] not. We were there last year, Waits and I, and Damian too. I wrote about it here, do you remember? There was a boat ride and cousins playing and a harrowing kitten rescue. And I [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Sayward Rebhal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sayward Rebhal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2013 23:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Haha, blue lollipop!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha, blue lollipop!</p>
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		<title>By: CgC</title>
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		<dc:creator>CgC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2013 17:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why are the little girl&#039;s lips blue in the first picture?
By the way, I think late night wine and two weeks of beach walks is excellent therapy.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why are the little girl&#8217;s lips blue in the first picture?<br />
By the way, I think late night wine and two weeks of beach walks is excellent therapy.</p>
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		<title>By: Fanny</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fanny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2013 06:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t have the time to leave a long comment, but I just wanted to let you know that you are an amazing woman. Amazing! Stay strong.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t have the time to leave a long comment, but I just wanted to let you know that you are an amazing woman. Amazing! Stay strong.</p>
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		<title>By: Sayward Rebhal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sayward Rebhal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2013 03:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you EVERYONE for all these sweet and supportive (and other - those too!) comments. I am currently in New York attending the &lt;a href=&quot;http://mainstreetvegan.net/academy/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Main Street Vegan Academy&lt;/a&gt; and gosh, I am WIPED OUT after just 4 1/2 hours of airplane sleep on the red eye last night, followed by a very full day in NYC today. I&#039;m not going to be able to reply to each comment individually, but I read them all and I appreciate every one. 

Thank you guys so much. &#9829; &#9829; &#9829;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you EVERYONE for all these sweet and supportive (and other &#8211; those too!) comments. I am currently in New York attending the <a href="http://mainstreetvegan.net/academy/" rel="nofollow">Main Street Vegan Academy</a> and gosh, I am WIPED OUT after just 4 1/2 hours of airplane sleep on the red eye last night, followed by a very full day in NYC today. I&#8217;m not going to be able to reply to each comment individually, but I read them all and I appreciate every one. </p>
<p>Thank you guys so much. &hearts; &hearts; &hearts;</p>
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		<title>By: trd3358</title>
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		<dc:creator>trd3358</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2013 20:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You honesty and eloquence are inspiring as always. I am so sorry that things were rough for you, but appreciate your ability to share your story. One&#039;s truth is never wrong. 
- Tara
http://joyfulyogawithtara.blogspot.com/]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You honesty and eloquence are inspiring as always. I am so sorry that things were rough for you, but appreciate your ability to share your story. One&#8217;s truth is never wrong.<br />
- Tara<br />
<a href="http://joyfulyogawithtara.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">http://joyfulyogawithtara.blogspot.com/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Daria in Santa Monica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daria in Santa Monica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2013 19:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sayward, I am praying for you. 

I pray that God may heal the pain in your heart over the loss of your dear mom, the pain of the beautiful, unborn baby you never got to hold in your arms, the sadness and frustration of years of trying to fix yourself, the pain of your broken family. May He replace it with His peace and the hope He gives, which transcends all understanding. May your life be blessed with His grace and His mercy and His forgiveness which endures forever.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sayward, I am praying for you. </p>
<p>I pray that God may heal the pain in your heart over the loss of your dear mom, the pain of the beautiful, unborn baby you never got to hold in your arms, the sadness and frustration of years of trying to fix yourself, the pain of your broken family. May He replace it with His peace and the hope He gives, which transcends all understanding. May your life be blessed with His grace and His mercy and His forgiveness which endures forever.</p>
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