<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: Playing Dress-Up: For My Birthday!</title>
	<atom:link href="http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2010/01/playing-dress-up-for-my-birthday/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2010/01/playing-dress-up-for-my-birthday/</link>
	<description>Socially Conscious, Totally Fabulous</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Sat, 14 Mar 2026 22:04:00 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1</generator>
	<item>
		<title>By: Sayward</title>
		<link>http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2010/01/playing-dress-up-for-my-birthday/comment-page-1/#comment-3691</link>
		<dc:creator>Sayward</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 21:48:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/?p=3864#comment-3691</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[@ Deanna - Thanks darlin&#039;! This dress has served me so well for many, many years.  =)

@ ellie - Yay for more tall girls! And good for you for embracing it with heals!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Deanna &#8211; Thanks darlin&#8217;! This dress has served me so well for many, many years.  =)</p>
<p>@ ellie &#8211; Yay for more tall girls! And good for you for embracing it with heals!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: ellie</title>
		<link>http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2010/01/playing-dress-up-for-my-birthday/comment-page-1/#comment-3657</link>
		<dc:creator>ellie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 15:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/?p=3864#comment-3657</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[you look so good! i&#039;m also a tall gitl (5 10) but i love wearing heels and the ones you are wearing are so cute!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you look so good! i&#8217;m also a tall gitl (5 10) but i love wearing heels and the ones you are wearing are so cute!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Deanna</title>
		<link>http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2010/01/playing-dress-up-for-my-birthday/comment-page-1/#comment-3648</link>
		<dc:creator>Deanna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 03:08:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/?p=3864#comment-3648</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I LOVE that dress! You are pulling off pregnancy with style and conscience :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I LOVE that dress! You are pulling off pregnancy with style and conscience :)</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Sayward</title>
		<link>http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2010/01/playing-dress-up-for-my-birthday/comment-page-1/#comment-3646</link>
		<dc:creator>Sayward</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 19:48:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/?p=3864#comment-3646</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[@ Lynn D. - Thank you! We went to Blossoming Lotus in NE Portland, it&#039;s the only quasi-fine-dining spot in the city.  =D Portland does vegans right, but it&#039;s pretty much all comfort food and &#039;family food&#039; and easy/cheap stuff. So Blossoming Lotus is quite the treat. I got a &#039;four cheese&#039; lasagna served over a bed of kale, mmm. Others got a cuban black been quesadilla, a BBQ tempeh and cornbread platter, a seitan pepper steak, and more. We all tasted everything and all of it was DIVINE!

@ Christa (and Lisa) - Yes! I use Rit dye you can get at the drugstore. It&#039;s petroleum based but I figure it&#039;s still better to spruce up the clothes you already have, than to get rid of them and go out and buy new clothes. A quick dye job can turn an old pair of jeans into a &#039;new&#039;, chic-looking pair in a snap. And it&#039;s CHEAP. Some tips:

To get that nice dark denim wash which makes jeans look so new and posh, I use black dye, NOT the &#039;dark denim&#039; color they sell.

I always do it in the washing machine as opposed to a bucket (directions for both on the bottle)

I always use hot water and always add the salt, which is optional.

Use cleaned and thoroughly rinsed clothes (detergent residue can interfere). Wet them first.

Dye won&#039;t take as well to synthetic fabrics, or anything shiny. But it&#039;s awesome on cotton, denim, hemp, etc. I mostly do jeans but have done skirts, tops, sweaters, all sorts of stuff.

Use more dye than they recommend. It&#039;s worth it to get a good solid stain.

You can mix colors to customize.

Good luck!

@ Lisa Hoffman - Thanks Mamma! It was a wonderful birthday and made all the better by your card and package! Talk soon!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Lynn D. &#8211; Thank you! We went to Blossoming Lotus in NE Portland, it&#8217;s the only quasi-fine-dining spot in the city.  =D Portland does vegans right, but it&#8217;s pretty much all comfort food and &#8216;family food&#8217; and easy/cheap stuff. So Blossoming Lotus is quite the treat. I got a &#8216;four cheese&#8217; lasagna served over a bed of kale, mmm. Others got a cuban black been quesadilla, a BBQ tempeh and cornbread platter, a seitan pepper steak, and more. We all tasted everything and all of it was DIVINE!</p>
<p>@ Christa (and Lisa) &#8211; Yes! I use Rit dye you can get at the drugstore. It&#8217;s petroleum based but I figure it&#8217;s still better to spruce up the clothes you already have, than to get rid of them and go out and buy new clothes. A quick dye job can turn an old pair of jeans into a &#8216;new&#8217;, chic-looking pair in a snap. And it&#8217;s CHEAP. Some tips:</p>
<p>To get that nice dark denim wash which makes jeans look so new and posh, I use black dye, NOT the &#8216;dark denim&#8217; color they sell.</p>
<p>I always do it in the washing machine as opposed to a bucket (directions for both on the bottle)</p>
<p>I always use hot water and always add the salt, which is optional.</p>
<p>Use cleaned and thoroughly rinsed clothes (detergent residue can interfere). Wet them first.</p>
<p>Dye won&#8217;t take as well to synthetic fabrics, or anything shiny. But it&#8217;s awesome on cotton, denim, hemp, etc. I mostly do jeans but have done skirts, tops, sweaters, all sorts of stuff.</p>
<p>Use more dye than they recommend. It&#8217;s worth it to get a good solid stain.</p>
<p>You can mix colors to customize.</p>
<p>Good luck!</p>
<p>@ Lisa Hoffman &#8211; Thanks Mamma! It was a wonderful birthday and made all the better by your card and package! Talk soon!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Leah</title>
		<link>http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2010/01/playing-dress-up-for-my-birthday/comment-page-1/#comment-3645</link>
		<dc:creator>Leah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 19:41:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/?p=3864#comment-3645</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Hooray for tall girls!!! I&#039;m always immediately excited to encounter women who are 6 feet (like me!!) or over. Heels make my back hurt, but sometimes I wear these sexy boots that I bought, like, 10 years ago. They have square toes and I luuuurve them.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hooray for tall girls!!! I&#8217;m always immediately excited to encounter women who are 6 feet (like me!!) or over. Heels make my back hurt, but sometimes I wear these sexy boots that I bought, like, 10 years ago. They have square toes and I luuuurve them.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Lisa Hoffman</title>
		<link>http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2010/01/playing-dress-up-for-my-birthday/comment-page-1/#comment-3640</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Hoffman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 18:32:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/?p=3864#comment-3640</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[My goodness!!! You look sooooooooooo beautiful!!! And what a fantastic outfit you put together.  Hope you had the very best birthday ever!!

I too am interested in dying jeans.  I have some old favorites that I would love to perk up! 

Cheers,
Momma]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My goodness!!! You look sooooooooooo beautiful!!! And what a fantastic outfit you put together.  Hope you had the very best birthday ever!!</p>
<p>I too am interested in dying jeans.  I have some old favorites that I would love to perk up! </p>
<p>Cheers,<br />
Momma</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Christa</title>
		<link>http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2010/01/playing-dress-up-for-my-birthday/comment-page-1/#comment-3637</link>
		<dc:creator>Christa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 23:39:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/?p=3864#comment-3637</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Any tips for dying your jeans darker?  And to echo everyone else out there - you look fabulous!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Any tips for dying your jeans darker?  And to echo everyone else out there &#8211; you look fabulous!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Lynn D.</title>
		<link>http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2010/01/playing-dress-up-for-my-birthday/comment-page-1/#comment-3635</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynn D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 22:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/?p=3864#comment-3635</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You look great! Where did you go for your birthday and how was the food?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You look great! Where did you go for your birthday and how was the food?</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Sayward</title>
		<link>http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2010/01/playing-dress-up-for-my-birthday/comment-page-1/#comment-3633</link>
		<dc:creator>Sayward</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 21:19:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/?p=3864#comment-3633</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Thanks everyone for all the sweet comments! It&#039;s nice to hear at this stage of pregnancy, when various body parts are in various states of discomfort and disrepair, haha. Not that I&#039;m complaining - I looooove being pregnant! 

@ Samantha - *Close*, but definitely not natural. I don&#039;t know if I&#039;ll ever be able to go natural.  =D

@ Courtney - Yay for tall girls! And thanks, I did have a blast!

@ Valerie - I don&#039;t have a large collection of shoes (compared to most), but I do have a *treasured* collection. I buy only secondhand which makes it tough, and on top of that my feet are HUGE, so finding shoes is HARD. I&#039;ve spent upwards of 2 years searching for the perfect pair to fill some niche, so when I find them they are like gold to me. Totally precious. So, for me it&#039;s more about quality than quantity in my shoe collection. I do have a small cache of heels that are more for just gazing at than using. I definitely understand why some women are such shoe fetishists!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks everyone for all the sweet comments! It&#8217;s nice to hear at this stage of pregnancy, when various body parts are in various states of discomfort and disrepair, haha. Not that I&#8217;m complaining &#8211; I looooove being pregnant! </p>
<p>@ Samantha &#8211; *Close*, but definitely not natural. I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;ll ever be able to go natural.  =D</p>
<p>@ Courtney &#8211; Yay for tall girls! And thanks, I did have a blast!</p>
<p>@ Valerie &#8211; I don&#8217;t have a large collection of shoes (compared to most), but I do have a *treasured* collection. I buy only secondhand which makes it tough, and on top of that my feet are HUGE, so finding shoes is HARD. I&#8217;ve spent upwards of 2 years searching for the perfect pair to fill some niche, so when I find them they are like gold to me. Totally precious. So, for me it&#8217;s more about quality than quantity in my shoe collection. I do have a small cache of heels that are more for just gazing at than using. I definitely understand why some women are such shoe fetishists!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Valerie</title>
		<link>http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/2010/01/playing-dress-up-for-my-birthday/comment-page-1/#comment-3631</link>
		<dc:creator>Valerie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 19:21:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonzaiaphrodite.com/?p=3864#comment-3631</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You look amazing!!!

Being only 5&#039;3&quot; I&#039;ll take all the help I can get vertically. However, I am all about comfort so I never wear heels, therefore, I wobble around in them as well. I am tempted to pair down my collection because they are so bad for you and I don&#039;t wear them that often. But I am a self-proclaimed shoe whore!!! I can&#039;t help myself I love shoes! Although I never spend more than $30 on pair (except my running shoes, I made an exception for those). 

So BA community what do you think? Do any of you struggle with this dilemma? Do you keep a few basic pairs, or is your closet brimming with shoes?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You look amazing!!!</p>
<p>Being only 5&#8217;3&#8243; I&#8217;ll take all the help I can get vertically. However, I am all about comfort so I never wear heels, therefore, I wobble around in them as well. I am tempted to pair down my collection because they are so bad for you and I don&#8217;t wear them that often. But I am a self-proclaimed shoe whore!!! I can&#8217;t help myself I love shoes! Although I never spend more than $30 on pair (except my running shoes, I made an exception for those). </p>
<p>So BA community what do you think? Do any of you struggle with this dilemma? Do you keep a few basic pairs, or is your closet brimming with shoes?</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>

<!-- Dynamic Page Served (once) in 0.210 seconds -->
